Andropause (male low testosterone)
The
medical profession have long debated the existence of male menopause.
Does it really exist? If so, at what age does it affect men?
What are the symptoms? Are they reversible with treatment? What
precautions can a man take to prevent/ postpone its arrival?
How is it similar to/different from female menopause?
Or,
on the other hand, is it a non-existent entity? Is it just a
another ploy on the part of male-bashing feminists to emasculate
men further? Are senile eighty-year old men who are seen dating
nubile young women really as capable as they appear to be or
are they merely fooling both their partners and themselves ?
Or are their partners fooling them?
Until
recently, the entire subject of the male menopause was steeped
in confusion and controversy. While women were accused of going
through middle-aged crises and menopause-related aberrations,
their male counterparts got away with propagating the myth of
the `ageless male' and boasted of virility all the way to their
graves.
So
what's the real score?
There is no doubt that a man's sexuality changes with advancing
age. The instant, anytime, `as-many-times-as-you-want' erections
that are more the rule rather than the exception at 18, do not
last forever. With advancing age, the urge reduces, erections
take time to come on, any time is not always a good time and
the penis requires more direct stimulation in order to get aroused.
Besides, the erections may not be as angled and rigid, and ejaculation
becomes more feeble. The refractory period (interval) between
erections gets prolonged.
Is
all this because of the maturation (maturity) process? Is it
because by middle age man has had enough sex so as not to be
unnaturally preoccupied with it any longer? Is this because
his wife has aged a bit and is no longer as attractive/interested
as before? Or is it because of the pressures at the work-place,
the demands of parenthood, or pre-occupation with the lives
of grown-up children and aging parents?
Is
there really something called a middle-age crisis? If so, how
is it different from male menopause?
Yes,
there is something known as a mid-life crisis. This is often
a time in life when stability has been achieved and the struggles
that were once a large part of life are now at an end. This
new awareness that a life change has taken place can sometimes
trigger a crisis. For some men, new-found stability may signify
an end to vitality or youth. Many men find that after spending
a lifetime working towards the goals of family and peers, the
end result is unfulfilling. This is also often a time of change.
Major shifts in career, marriage and parenting often occur during
this time period. And, along with the physical signs of aging
comes a realization of impending old age, retirement and eventually
death. This time of life will only become a crisis if the changes
become too difficult to cope with.
|